The Outgoing battle: Looks vs Personality

As much as we try to convince girls that personality is all that matters to us. One of the strongest weapons a women can attract us with is her looks. Looking at our culture, it emphasizes on looks more than anything else. Have you ever seen any Emiraty speaking about how interesting, outgoing and fun his girl is without being called a fag? It is true that the hotter your girl is the more you can brag and flex your muscles.

The shame is such emphasis on looks is practiced in our culture since the days of our parents and arranged marriages where the guy and the girl are shown a picture of their future soul mate (wannabe) and from that picture they have to decide.

Yet its not limited to it. Recent studies have shown that at a very early age, children began to pick whom they would like for playmates by such standards as facial attractiveness and body form (Fisher, 1986)

looks may be the first thing some people pick up on, but no matter how dazzling the display there has to be something deeper to make a meaningful relationship.
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Simple Rating Method:

Yes my dear friends, something deeper. but lets take a look at the simplest functions our male brains have been wired to do in situations were decision on such topic has to be made


Its the 0 to 10 rating line the comes in sentences such as "hey bro, out of 10, how much do you give that girl?" were everybody craves to have a 10/10 chick by their side all day long.

Pros: Simple, easy to use method of pointing out miss universe
Cons: would you go for her? in most cases you'd only fantasize if its worth it

Complex Rating Method:

I devised a more advanced rating method that puts important factors into consideration.

Here comes the personality part where you can brag about how personality matters the most to you and make all girls melt. but looks come with a price as it is said that the more hot a women is the more she is approached by guys that results in her developing a self-defense mechanism unconsciously forcing her to put a wall or a barrier between her and any male person. Yet the typical male insists on getting himself a 10 in looks and in most cases falls for a man eater. Lucky ones can get both 10s in personality and looks. Though as the graph states, the efficient sacrifice would be a 5 in both.

Figuring out the personality:

but here comes the tricky part, how do you figure out a girls personality? it varies from one person to another, some people consider shyness as a good personality trait, some consider the opposite. Others rate girls according to the music they listen to ;)

but the best way to describe it is using a bell curve where too little of something is bad and too much of it is bad too. Lets take the example of me and my way of rating a girls personality according to her taste in music.


The Forgotten Trait:

It seems that most researches fail to mention anything about Intelligence. Who doesn't want a smart girl? or what girl doesn't want a smart guy? would A dumb good looking girl with a very good personality be a good choice? ...... that would be a long debate.

As for now there are some polls to the right, your activity is much appreciated